Arthur,

MC is a dirty word to W so that's out of the window. I had 6 sessions of IC provided by my employers but that didn't work out cos the therapist wasn't up to dealing my sitch, she was just stunned by the events I was telling her about and she just used to listen to me open mouthed. This site is my therapy and it effectively saved me and gave me the strength to take a shot at saving my M so thats what I'm working with.

Fb2,
W now works 4 hours Saturday and 4 hours Sunday mornings. Saturday is ok cos D7 has a dance class and can be kept occupied. On Sundays I need to find more activities so I'm rotating between feeding the ducks at the park, swimming, going to church (sorry I don't go every week)and anything else I can think of. Actually with the swimming I was to have started 2 years ago, but with various bombs going off I've not been in the right frame of mind to be that attentive to D. Plus it was nice to update on somthing other than trying to get my leg over, I didn't want that to be come a running joke on this forum.

Rob,

Somtimes I have flashbacks, bad dreams, somtimes I can't sleep, but all I know is that these feelings will get less and less in time. I can feel some changes, for instance I don't go into the newcommers section too much, Arthur was the last one I hooked up with and he was in a right old state \:\) but look at him now. I don't spend all day in work on this site, I have done that in the past, so thats some progress. So as I've said just I have to keep pushing on KBO.

N_A,
I hope it all pays off in time and I eventually have a nice tight loving M with W. I can't ask for more.


Lanzo