I still wonder how my H could just detatch so easy when I was so ill. if they are truly afraid of us dying, they have an icky way of showing it!
I think it is easier for men (in general) to detach, than women. Women are the born caregivers in the family, with the children etc. Men are brought up not to show their feelings or it is considered a sign of weakness. Combine that with "out of sight, out of mind" and there you have it.
Quote:
no one is promised a tomorrow, no one!
Yes, and because you and I have actually opened the mortality door and looked thru the other side, we get it. Everybody else still has that secure little feeling that "it won't happen to me."
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
