Friday night when I got home from work my W and I made dinner. After dinner she went to a jewlery party and I stayed home to clean up and then watched a little tv. My daughter went to her HS football game with her friend. The parents of my D friend took them so I left to pick them up around 8:45. My office is right across the street so I went there, surfed the web and waited for her to call.
My W calles me a little after 9 wondering where I am at. I told her and she wanted to know why I had left so early and that she thought the game would not be over till ten. I was about to say I thought it would be over around 9:15 when my D calls to tell me to pick her up. I got off the phone with my wife and went and picked my D and her friend up.
When I got home my W was in the living room and we talked for a little bit. I was watching a video before I left and wanted to know if she wanted to watch the rest with me. She said no and went up to watch a show she had taped in our bedroom. Now explain this to me. I continued to watched my movie and my W comes down when she is done and sits on the couch next to me and fells asleep while I finished my movie. Its about 11:30 so I head to bed and she stayes up till 12:30 which just leads me to belive she is still avoiding me. I sleep till about 5:30 and then get up to go downstaires because I don't want to wake her because I can't sleep. She asks where are you going. I tell her I can not sleep and did not want to wake her. She says come back to bed and we can snuggle.
I come back to bed and she moves right up next to me, puts her hands on my arm and falls back to sleep. Now why didn't she just do that at night? Why come down stairs and have me go to bed first and then come up an hour later?
Saturday I worked around the house. My D went to a party at a friends house about an hour away from us. Again someone took her and I was picking them up. My W, S and I went out to dinner then to the book store and the mall and then we went home. We watch some tv till it was time to go pick up my D. The party was over at 11 so I knew it would be after 12 till I got home.
When I got home the W was in bed waiting for us. We talked for a little bit then went to sleep. She had a slight headache all night so I just rolled over and went to sleep. In the morning she rolls over into my arms and lays her hear on my shoulder. It felt nice to have her do this.
Spent Sunday morning making breakfast, taking the kids to church then driving my D friend home since she slept over. I watch my football team lose and then we made dinner. After dinner the W, S and I went to a Haunted House. Had a really good time. All in all it was a very nice weekend.
The only explination I can come up with for my W wanting me to go to bed first is that she wants to be near me but does not want to be pressured into something else so its safer to avoid that temptation at night. Allow me to go to bed, fall asleep then she can come up without any worries. Then in the morning she does not have that same feeling that she could be pressured into doing something so she is more open to be intimate. Who really knows but why else do what she does? I told her several times that I do not want to have sex and I do not do anything to make her think otherwise but I feel that it is the underlying problem. JMO and since I can't read her mind I will never really know for sure.
That was my weekend, hopefully everyone else had a nice one also.
