T2L, I hope that all is going well. Any updates - good I wish. You give the rest of us hope on this board!
I did GAL on Friday by going to Irish pub to listen to Irish band which was nice. Not sure if I want to go back because I find it hard to be around single people. I don't want to give the impression I am looking for someone - I'm not. I got asked to participate in learning how to Irish dance on Wed., which I did turn down because I would have to dance with a partner. T2L, who do you dance with when you do salsa dancing? I find all of this very difficult.
Sunday, I watched a movie, read and took a nap. It was beautiful out but I think I needed time to just veg out. Today at lunch I will go to the gym and do Yoga.
I need to find more GAL but it seems everyone that I tell about my separation wants to drag me out to meet eligible men. I tell them I am not interested...at all. I know they are trying to help but that is the last thing I want.
Also same question--- is everyone on this board wearing their wedding rings? I am even though I practically cry when I take it off at night.
We have not told the work people yet (which of course makes it easier for H to carry on his A with his direct report) but I don't think I could deal with all of them and the gossip right now.
My SIL from Scotland called this weekend and I talked to her for an hour. She is very upset with the cheating and before my H would call her every few weeks and she said since the beginning of summer he has maybe called her 3 times and she knows it is because of his actions now. I think next time he calls her she will give it to him good. She practically raised him so her opinion is important to him (well up to this summer).
take care all. Where is Marisol and Twin hope
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
