wdid I am trying to remind her that I love her, not in words because she doesn't want that, but in actions.
I think that's good. I think you're doing great, just don't want you to let her getting away with hurting/abusing you kind of stuff. For one thing, if she ever reconsidered and wanted to work on the M, then I think that would make it that much tougher for you to want to work on it at that point. And she needs to learn to respect you more as well, or grow up or whatever. Karen
