What an AZZZZZ! I'm still stuck on the part about your mother's eye. I've had the shots into the eye. There is no more painful experience. If she is like me, she will lose sight in the eye for about 2 months. What happened to her is a serious injury. And instead, he is focusing on how life has departed from his enforced schedule. Your husband is a child who refuses to own up to adulthood. He's had every chance to pull himself together, and he just wants to escape. He will not get far, but he will lose everything he has spent the past 10 years building. He needs a lot of professional help.