Nagging, telling h what to do, giving ultimatums, etc do not work. It puts "me" in charge and makes h feel more pressured. Who wants a nagging and controlling spouse anyways?
If I did these things, it defeats my purpose for allowing God to take control. I do have very strong opinions that if we interfere in God's work, it backfires.
My H knows right from wrong, and he knows what he needs to do to get better.
With all of that said, I am allowing God to work here.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
