Well, if you were following Jody's stages (see my thread from AGES ago) I would say you are in stage 2 - friendship - which is great.
Hmmm, I can imagine it must be hard hearing about OM#1, and it's quite weird that she is so open to telling you about it. If it gets too much you should set someboundaries but on the other hand it is great you are so relaxed with each other!
