Morning, Just reading all the postings. Good ideas for me also. TxMom -- you get good support here.
Wanted to let everyone know that I have one appt. left with Jody (DB coach), I am going to schedule it hopefully for this week. I am going to be brining up these same questions - detach, no contact, or true dBer. Will let you know what her suggestions are.
I like what Saffie said about the temperature testing the R. I have not done that lately but was doing it almost every time I talked to H. I have gotten away from that.
Well it is Monday and a new day at work. It is so stressful because there is always the chance I will see OW if she comes over to this building. I hate it. Makes it so difficult for me. But I am going to Yoga during lunch and breathe.


Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09