Got an email from the line dancing instructor this morning making sure I am going tonight. I have a Halloween party this saturday night as well. My social calendar is doing well this week. Going to my father in laws for dinner mayb Wednesday night. Had both grandkids this weekend, one overnight at my camp Saturday and watched the other for a few hours yesterday. they were awesome. W spent considerable time trying to connect with kids this weekend. From what I hear, MIL is really beating her up. W called my son to go over to where she is staying Saturday night to have a fire. My son asked who was there, she told him, her, her GF and GF's ex husband. My son said it sounds too cold , not tonight. Reached out for that because I had other grandson and was having a fire with him. Kids all called and told me she is reaching out to them, and when they do get together its awkward because its like she isn't even there. Kids felt "no connection". youngest D wanted me to go and get her over W friends house. told her that wouldn't be right. D said she was bored, W barely talked to her, just complained about her mother beating her up with everything she is doing. MIL called me twice this weekend. told her everything was fine, i was doing well. each time she tried to tell me about W, told her I had to go and politely got out of the conversation and hung up. Also found out this weekend that my daughters have put me on an online dating website.