Man....he's really not looking inside himself is he?
How on earth did you avoid coming unglued yourself?
"fundamentally two different people" Have heard that from h almost word for word.
My h has acted just like this (with the exception of punching the wall - that's been my bad behaviour). Does he realise that punching the wall (and where were you and the kids at that point) is part of abusive behaviour?
He's acting pretty childish himself in not taking a step back and realising that d is only 2. Doesn't he realise (and he should given that you have an older child in s) that there are nights where they don't go to bed easily? Grr...he makes me cranky.
You understand the concept of marriage. It's not always easy. It seems that he just wants it all to fall into his lap.
Hugs to you BBJ
** Purple
As soon as you trust yourself you will know how to live. Goethe
