Watching,Listening,Waiting.... #4

[JAK58]

Doc,SO2,

Love must be tough is a good book. I do have it and was thinking about re-reading it along with DR again.

Doc, good excersise machines. Im'e sure you will get a good workout from them and be super BUFF.

SO2,

Thanks. The D diet does suck. When you get your bearings most of the time it will come back on two fold.

UP TO 5lbs It is not supposed to be water weight and I am drinking a ton sooooo.


JAK

[fightingirish]

ok guys, don't let her fool you, she is a very beautiful woman.. so she will look even more "fetching" after this!!

Hope you are doing ok.. what's up with H?

[JAK58]

HI Tal,

Thank you for the compliment.

H is still trudging along Sometimes in the R sometimes withdrawn, more in though.
I am in the mindset right now that it's his dream/nightmare and when he wkaes up to let me know what he wants.

How is the new car?

Has your H been up fishing?
It is crazy around here.
Lots of fish heads with hooks coming in to the Health center to get them out. A few years ago a woman came in with one in her eye. Needleess to say we shipped her out and she lost her eye.
That was gross.

I have to call you haven't had much time to breath.

JAK

[Yoyowife]

Hi Jak,
Just wanted to stop by and say hello. Have your read Surviving your Husband's MLC by Sally Conway. It's one of those books that I've read more than once along with DR and Love Must Be Tough.

[JAK58]

Yoyo

No I have not I have read her husbands but not hers, is it much different?

How are you and where is your thread?

JAK

[Yoyowife]

Hi JAK,
It is a little different. I think it speaks more directly to the wife. Some things I agree with and some I don't. It's like any other book, just take with you a little here and there.

I'm doing well. My thread is still in infidelity. I really don't know where I belong, so I just stay where I'm comfortable for the time being.

[limbo]

Jak,

I just wanted to stop by your thread and thank you for all your help and support!
You have really helped me out this week, along with everyone else, don't think I could have gotten through this week with out you!!

(((((Jak)))))

[JAK58]

(((((((Limbo)))))))))


You have been as much a help to me as I am to you I assure you!

By helping you to sort through what you need to do for you you help me to sort through my stuff too.
Thank You.

We will keep working on US.

Hugs Hon.

JAK

[JAK58]

Interesting phone calls all week long and now im'e sure H even thinks it is awful coinsidental that they are coming.
same time frame each day, all week from an unknown # (which is usually work, OW not there) They hang up after you say hello about three times, even when H answers.
wonder what is going on H even thinks it is the person that has been calling me at work to tell me things.

Went hunting this weekend and saw nothing.
Worked around the house as much as we could and watched MIL also.
MlL is getting so bad that we think she will pass very soon.

Trying to take more time for me but it has been hard as everyone wants a [iece of me and don't seem to think that we/I need time to myself/ourself.

JAK

[limbo]

((((Jak))))

I can totally related! I have felt that way for a long time!
My Dad passed away over 4 years ago, and my Mum just can't get over it, so she goes no where and does nothing, and so I am her primary contact, and I have to worry about her all the time.
She is also very wrapped up in herself, so even when I needed her the most she wasn't there for me, and it makes it really hard!
It would be nice for someone to want to focus on you, and put your needs first! But I guess as we get older that happens less and less!

Take good care of yourself!