Thing is he actually was suggesting still that while I stay with my friend that there are also certain nights that I should stay at the house. He then said that I should stay 3 nights with my friend this week and all of November, but that during November I'd stay some nights at home too.
I actually think what I am going to do, and in a way it's anti-DBing but is STILL a 180 from this summer, is to put together a suggested calendar of nights I stay at home and nights I stay with him. I have been saying to him all along that we should just take things how they come, but this makes him really anxious for some reason. So, I am going to propose 3 months in the same way that he had proposed 3 months to me, but with all of these built in dates staying other places. Anyway I am going to have this calendar of dates ready if it seems appropriate in the conversation, but will not send it to him in advance or anything.
He really confuses me. This morning he was actually loving, so I am really shocked that he sent me an IM during work hours in the way that he did. I just don't understand what his issues are...
Any interesting astrological updates I should be aware of today?
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
