Wii - That is awesome!! You should continue to pursue a friendship with the Filipino family that reserved you seats at their table. Building a social network is a huge step in this process.
I understand exactly what you mean by not being ready. Post-divorce is a new rollercoaster! Six months ago, I was completely detached from my x-wife and child, I bascially had zero contact with them. Ran off to Vegas with this girl I was seeing and spent about 4 months getting a little crazy.
Eventually reality and guilt set in, the chick and I broke up and I began focusing on my child. Went on a few dates during the summer, but just did not feel like I was ready to pursue another relationship. The Vegas chick and I are still friends, but every so often she has a mini explosion because I refused to take things to the next level. Nothing against her, she wanted more than I could give.
So right now, I lead a quiet and simple life. Work, hang out with friends, go to the gym and spend time with my daughter.
