DQ, I want to thank you again for telling me like it is. The talk my husband and I had the other day has changed everything. We both realize that it will take work on both our parts, and commitment to R on both our parts, in order to move forward. And I've learned from experience this past week that I can speak my mind and be respected for my opinion. This weekend was the best one we've had in a long time. And last night when I hugged him and said I had a great weekend, he said, "Me too!" Wow! This is huge for him to say something like this!