H said he didn't want to go to Retro, the people were annoying him and he couldn't handle it yesterday...asked me to go to Lunch in Lincoln instead, another 40 min. away...
So we drove together and talked and it was pretty comfortable. Then after we ate I asked, what next, cause my mom had the kids until6:30. He asked me to decided. I said lets go for a walk, he said no. I said ok then and listed several things including go to movies. He said what movie. I said Fireproof? He said, not today. But I will go to a movie. So we went to see Appaloosa. Very good movie but the lead female character is manipulative and betrays the lead guy at one point. SO I said to H "Maybe this movie was not a good choice" (B/C He often says women cannot be trusted). He said "No this movie shows the truth".
Anyway we moved on from that finished the movie. So we spend the day driving around together, going to eat and to a movie. All things I really enjoy. I was happy he was making an effort....
I stopped at my moms to get the kids. D had scratched my mom's eyeball, she had a 10% torn cornea! Mom had been to the ER and got shots in her eye, not good. I felt bad about it, stayed a bit to talk to her. Got home w/kids at 8:00.
Put S to bed at 8:15 and D wouldn't stay in bed. I kept singing to her, she kept getting up. H got madder and madder cause our plan was both kids in bed at 8:15. At 9:00 I was walking with D, she was crying, H took her from me, she got hysterical screaming for mommy. I went in the next room so she couldn't see me.
All of a sudden H started beating on the wall between us. I got up, he said FU I HATE YOU over and over. It was my fault she wasn't in bed, and that was that
