Things are quiet around the house and we seem to have a good weekend. I wish I could say things were quiet in my mind! I just can't seem to turn my mind of, I do the stop sign thing, but it doesn't work, its just back to having things going around and around in my head.
BTDT.......Limbo it does get easyier to let it go. little things do still trigger it but it now leaves my mind as fast as is came back.
Originally Posted By: limbo
I feel like H is just burying things and pretending all is fine and dandy...we don't talk about anything, we haven't dialogued, nothing. Thanks for the vent!
Yep... I FELT wife was same way... but was she really? I think our spouses know what happened was not right. I hope to think that even though they seem like a duck on the surface they too are paddling like heck under water.... Parts of us I think want to see the pain in there face that they gave us. I does not always work that way. People react to things differently. How we act reflects and determines how they respond. There is a fine line between "I do not like what you did but I love you and will give you one more chance"... "I love you's" And the 'I love you unconditionally what you did hurt me but I love you anyway so it was ok.....
DR LOve
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
