Back to life, back to reality?

[istherehope]

So H IMs me while at work to talk about the living situation, and how is IS trying but needs certainty. He so seems to want to push this to a decision, and he keeps saying he just doesn't know if he can do this. I am pretty upset, and I am going to go home early now. I can't believe he did this while I was at work. Again I got the "I'm not in love with you" via IM. Of course I said a lot of things too, mainly don't push me away, and I really think we need to be around each other to try and see how things work. Now he says he is comfortable, and likes the dynamic, but feels caged. He wants to talk tonight, and I am pretty concerned. I have made it very clear what I want, but it seems as though he is unwilling to bend anywhere. I know for a fact that our best chance of making this work out is to be around each other more. I just am not sure of the best way to make this happen.

ITH