and why would you even attempt it if you know this?? Cheeseless tunnel maybe? Dog chasing it's tail maybe?
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The thought of dating was a beepbeepbeepbeep. Now I realize that if and when I'm ready.. it's a DATE.. not a lifetime commitment. It's a couple of hours out of my life, not years of knowing someone. It's not a plunge to swim the English Channel, it's a toe tickled by the scant froth of a receding wave. It's temporary, not permanent. It goes at my pace, it goes as fast or as slow as feels right.
If I feel guilty, I ask myself why. If I feel pressured, I say no thank you. If it's great, I'll consider more!
But..
and all this is what it is...it's called dating. In my sitch...I'm married on paper only..and that paper is about burned..so dating, having a good time, going out in my mind does not spell rebound..it spells living..
I see where you are. I see how each are at their own place in their sitch.
