Ottocat, I wish you well too! I think that I am very misunderstood because I am so blunt spoken. I am not a bitter, resentful, or mean person. I just have beliefs like everyone else and I stand by them, it doesn't mean that I am unflexible though, if I see that I am wrong, I will change them. As for my XW showing up one day, LOL well I am afraid that I closed that chapter of my life, I don't want to reunite with her, way too much hurt and mean things said and done for me to get past. I am very happy with my life right now.
