I hear you loud and clear Upside. You do have many positives. I can see your h coming back slowly. Babe and baby those are all positives.

I remember how shocked I was when h called me babe. This is going to take a lot more time.

Hang in there Upside. My h won't he home anytime soon either. Check my thread and let me know what you think. Hugs!


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"