BBJ - I am sure you know already, but you have to let him be to wallow in his own mess he has created in his mind. The man needs some sort of serious therapy and hopefully they might convince him that some medication could help.
He does not know what is most important in his life and I think his job is ruling his every move.
You may have reverted back to some old BBJ habits of pushing him too much, but that is no excuse for him to go off on you like that.
I am so sorry for what you are going through. It must seem like a second bomb.
