MWG I think your h is in a deep depression. It's easy to look from the outside and say you should do this and you should do that. That's the easy part.
It takes a much stronger soul to dig deep and have the stance and patience that you do. You have been a huge inspiration for me. This is exactly why D is rampant.
Without God showing me unconditional love I would have given up a long time ago. None of this whole journey is easy, but you are right what works for one may not work for another. What one's idea of what another should put up with may not fit with the other's ideas.
It is so true, when you take matters in your own hands, the progress does go backward.
Hugs!
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"