What works for one person does not always work for another and each situation is just a little bit different.
My h has made great progress this year.
I try not to judge him for his actions or where he is living or with whom. Sure it gets old but I prefer to let God deal with him and not to interfere in the process of what God is doing. I know my H will be home but again, in God's perfect timing.
The way some people deal with this is far different than how I deal with it. And what may work for others does not translate into working for all.
I respect everyone's opinions but I do know how best to deal with my husband, I think.
Snowmm:
My 180 was just saying goodbye or some such thing, and that was my decision at that time because I was not in the mood.
Nobody here advised me on that.
I will be honest and tell you that if I take matters into my own hands, the progress goes back at least 20 steps. I prefer to allow God to work on my husband, not me.
Yes, I am tired but this is the path I have chosen to take. God says we must suffer and this is part of His plan.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
