Having been the OW - and i am not defending them, and there are some sick responses, I see it as an indication of exactly how they feel and how they cannot see the destructiveness of what they do. In lala land
They really truely believe they are in love and that anyone in there way is the enemy. No thoughts of the family or indeed the misery they are causing or going to cause to EVERYONE including themselves
I say use the site to get insight in to how there minds work. May give you amo in your own battles.