Well W finally said something about the ring. We were having a conversation while she was getting ready for work today. She had just taken a shower and had shaved her legs and such when she came into the room where I was. She began to get dressed while under her towel. Quite a switch from yesterday when I came into the bathroom while she was finishing up her shower and proceeded to get ready for mine. I shaved while she toweled off and both of us were in full view so to speak. I even kissed her on the lips and got a hug. Well that was yesterday......more on that later. Back today... I looked at her and said "ya know Ive seen you nude a thousand times before" She said I know but Im mad at you for going through my purse. (this in reference to me getting the my ring out of her change purse when she asked me to get her wallet to pay the pizza guy LAST WEEK. Now Ive been wearing the ring for a week now. She told me she was mad at me for going through the change purse. That it was hers and I had no right ect. I said It wasn't her ring to hold on to and that it was my mistake for letting her take it off my finger. I said I was sorry for do it and W said I could have asked for it back. To which I said I didn't think she would give it back.
After a while she was leaving for work and said her goodbye's to the kids. Then at my turn she simply said for me to have a good night or whatever it was. I was upset. I answered rather irritatedly for her to do the same. Then she left. Yes I did wrong but I wanted my ring back to show the world I was married. Something tells me this was her projecting her anger at me for something else too. She had a whole week to bust me and she didn't. Why now?
To get back to yesterday.... It was the day of her brothers wedding. An entire day or family and friends and a few surprises. at the unique ceremony we all stood around the bridal party (it was outside) while they said their vows. W and I stood next to M and D IL. I put my arm around her waist. I couldn't help but wonder what went through her mind and the forsake all others part.... Throughout the party afterwards she looked more and more unhappy and on edge. not only about a family issue but maybe the reminders of vows in such. Though she wasn't nasty to me she was a tad cold to me.
I spoke to her tonight for night nights with the kids...she was getting sick with a cold so it was hard to say if she was still mad. She did answer my general questions about work but it was still tuff to say...
Im still praying like mad. I need strength and hope cuz I'm getting down here. If you read this and if you believe say a prayer for all of us who are going through this hell. Peace.
Last edited by Gman3388; 10/20/0802:56 AM.
Gman Me 40 W 30 kids B 11 B 10 D 8 Been here off and on since 06. PA Confirmed Dec 08.. With God, anything is possible. Do or do not there is no try. Sometimes you have to roll the hard six...
