Carpenter,

I don't really think their is a sure answer to that question. At the point and time a meltdown comes, if it does, it is hard to know for sure where we are at emotionally and mentally. I am not so sure it is even something to consider right now. Thinking to much about the future without certainty will just pollute the mind and things can change fast. Just my thoughts on it.


A warrior does not give up on what he loves, he finds the love in what he does

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