should you do any of this stuff if your seperated? I mean the flirty stuff that doesn't necesarily lead to sex, right away anyway...H does flirt with me, but it leads no where. He still leaves and goes home. I don't know how to flirt. I try but don't think I am getting anywhere. Don't know if I should at this point...

H was HD, I was LD. Now that we are seperated(1yr) I am HD. Recently H says sex does not matter to him anymore...HUGE 180 for him if he is telling me the truth. We were still having alot of sex until a month ago. Then it just stopped. Last encounter H got his, left me hanging. That was it.

M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!