Hijame38 - Thank you so much for your story. I wonder if you could help me. Not sure how much of my sitch you have read, but bottom line - I had an A, lied about it, finally told truth and H left me.
I have done lots to try to and make my life open to him. He has passwords to accounts, emails, and anything else he requests. But It does not seem to help. I know he does not forgive me and to be honest he never has said he has. I have apologised, cried , done all the things that Dbing said not to do (and they were right ) and he does not seem moved.
Is there nything else your W could of done to help you. Is there anything she could of said. I wonder if it is not just wht we say but what we do or our actions?
I am fasinated that you are realising what you have lost. I am so fearful that if i do give up on the M and I do find happiness with someone else and he becomes like you , that I wil be torn. One of my reasons for fighting for M is for the family. Some may disagree but I dont. I believe whole heartedly in the strength of the family unit.
Wish you could talk to my H - but right now he is not in the right head space to listen. I am considering showing him this web site and seeing if he participates. I think as a man he would gain a lot of helpful advise here.
