I spent a bunch of time on there Friday night and was ASTOUNDED by the people that post there. It was amazingly a lot like our board with the exception that they were all totally ok with being a 3rd party participant to a marriage.
I actually found this to be somewhat amusing (from the Married Man to English Dictionary)
I'm confused. I cant choose between what I tell you is a sh***y loveless marriage or you. Damn that's romantic.
Here are some highlights:
An OW is mad at her MM because he told his BW-B*tch Wife (classy!) about the A and this was what one of the empathetic posters put in their reply. (The funny thing about BWs is, they'll believe whatever an OW tells them, true or not.)
After D-day 10 years ago... She initially checked his mobile phone bill, looked through his phone, phoned him at odd times, checked up on his wereabouts, all this has stopped. She smiles and tells him to have a good time when he goes out without her, no questions. But this doesnt sound right to me. It hasnt been that long since the D Day, and she knows the extent of our history....
Love doesn't hurt, even if it's passive kind of hurt. Love doesn't make you wait. Love doesn't make you a secret.
There was a whole lot more that just turned my stomach. They all seemed to think that the MM/MW spouse was just either and idiot or a desparate gold digger wanting what was so rightfully theirs. So sick...I hope the flames burn extra bright in their corner of hell.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option