OMG, there is a section on success stories...where they were able to break up a marriage and maintain a relationship with the co-cheater. Gross!! Cheering each other on to keep cheating...eeeewwwww. I think I need a tylenol.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Anyone with a OW/OM involved with their spouse should check if they are logging on there. Might be good to know what is going on with the competition.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
So get this...I actually registered there. I was thinking about everything I could say without sounding like I was attacking them to maybe knock some sense into their heads. Then I thought about it...why in the world would I try reasoning with people who are only thinking of themselves. The last thing they wanna hear is from a W who they consider a B*tchWife. It really is sick that they are promoting having an affair. I just want to scream at them, do you really think your MM is being honest with you if he can't even be honest with the person he lives with and his children?!!??! Especially when 95% of their meetings are to have sex! It really is disgusting. And it's hilarious that the women, I'm sorry, they're not worthy to be called women, are upset because they think its the BW's fault that the MM won't leave her and go live with them!! Really?! I'm not kicking my H out and he is still living with me. That's not my fault!!! That's his. Get mad at him!!! And why on earth people can't wait to start a relationship before filing for D is beyond me. I keep telling my H, if it's meant to be, it will be. Doesn't matter how long you have to wait for it. And I totally agree that there is a special place for these people.
Me- 29 X - 30 M - 7.5 years Final April 2009 S - 2005 D - 2007
Don't make someone a priority who only makes you an option.
A wise fish once said...Just keep swimming...Just keep swimming!
yes a particularly hot and uncomfortable place, that they will be at for all eternity unless they come to their senses. It is sick but alas free speech. It just makes me want to throw up.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I spent a bunch of time on there Friday night and was ASTOUNDED by the people that post there. It was amazingly a lot like our board with the exception that they were all totally ok with being a 3rd party participant to a marriage.
I actually found this to be somewhat amusing (from the Married Man to English Dictionary)
I'm confused. I cant choose between what I tell you is a sh***y loveless marriage or you. Damn that's romantic.
Here are some highlights:
An OW is mad at her MM because he told his BW-B*tch Wife (classy!) about the A and this was what one of the empathetic posters put in their reply. (The funny thing about BWs is, they'll believe whatever an OW tells them, true or not.)
After D-day 10 years ago... She initially checked his mobile phone bill, looked through his phone, phoned him at odd times, checked up on his wereabouts, all this has stopped. She smiles and tells him to have a good time when he goes out without her, no questions. But this doesnt sound right to me. It hasnt been that long since the D Day, and she knows the extent of our history....
Love doesn't hurt, even if it's passive kind of hurt. Love doesn't make you wait. Love doesn't make you a secret.
There was a whole lot more that just turned my stomach. They all seemed to think that the MM/MW spouse was just either and idiot or a desparate gold digger wanting what was so rightfully theirs. So sick...I hope the flames burn extra bright in their corner of hell.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
yeah I read and read to see if the ow had posted there, so far havent pinned anything down to her, but it sure made me sick reading all thier spew
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
