I think that is a very wise quote. I am going with the flow now and seeing what happens. If we get back together great! if not then I will be okay after awhile and will find someone else. As we all know I am very young, as is hubby, and we have a lot of growing up to do both as a couple and individually. A lot of people had an opinion when we were engaged (I was 19 and he had just turned 20 when we got married) and they said we would grow apart, we would change and not be the same people, etc. I can see how in some ways they were right but at the same time if we stick together and hold on tight I know we can and will grow together as we grow up. So while it will never be perfect we can make things pretty damn good as we go along.