Thanks Lanzo, took that advice. Visit was a little uncomfortable for all but went OK.
WAW called me last night to discuss outcomes for Term 4 at Kindergarten. She was plesant and so was I although I detected a foreced tone in her voice. Said she was not going away for the long weekend next weekend and could I take S3 for the Sat morning as she is training for a half marathon. I'm pleased to do so and repsonded enthusiastically about having S3. WAW wanted tgo discuss Christmas arrangements and I said I was flexible. Yet again she's not going to her parents beach house for Christmas which is a shame for WAW and S3.
-------- Me; 38 W; 34 1 4yr old S Married 4.5 yrs, together 9 yrs Bomb; 15 June 2007 Holiday together Sept 2008; My Dad dies Nov 2008; reconcliation fails Nov 2008