It nearly brings tears to my eyes to read stories where the X/STBX is finally the one to seek us out. After so much giving, working hard on my "issues," always being the one who initiates, putting aside my feelings in an effort to not smother, its hard to imagine a day like you are describing. I don't know if I will ever be in a place where my STBX will come to me, pursue me, want me, love me like he used to. I am so glad for you. Relish in the pure joy of it.
Me:42 H:47 D:17 S:14 D:13 D:13 M: 18 years H filed 6/16/08 (I considered separation 5/08). D final 11/09. EH MLC/alcoholic. Not sure what the future holds..
