To be honest ---I DON'T THINK that many folks who finally re-unite with their spouses have the time or the focus of wanting to get back on the board and share their results. From what I am seeing ---the "coming back together" has many ups and downs and that can take quite a bit of time. By the time the spouse returns ---the MLC issues finally extinquish themselves --"a lot of water has gone under the proverbial bridge" --and quite typically the spouse who stood for the marriage all this time simply wants to get on with a happy life.
I think it would be wonderful if everyone who reunited would share their happiness with all of us ---but in many cases it is very understandable why this doesn't happen.
And yes --Brandnewday --you are right ---it is much harder to have the spouse in the home while in MLC. The good thing is that you have constant contact with the MLC'er --and in some ways that can be beneficial - if your nerves can stand it! I think the Lord gives us the situations that best work for us. In my case --having my H home would have been horrendous. And it certainly would have adversely affected my already compromised health.
