I probably wasn't DBing very good and I told her that my only goal right now was to repair our marriage. I asked her why did she think I was waiting so long for her(not dating). She was crying about not being able to find a job and telling me she has been trying very hard to find one. I told her that I love her still and we could start over fresh. She said that we don't have anything anymore financially which is somewhat true except for our retirement savings(that is dwindling with the crappy market). I told her it didn't matter and that we started with nothing and could work our way back up. I would help her find a job and she was welcome to move in to my house. I rubbed her back as she cried and she told me to stop so I did. She told me she has someone who loves her now but she did admit that she believed me when I told her I loved her. Then this afternoon my brother in-law said my mother in-law mentioned something about her getting married again...It really hurt me to hear that. I don't know if it's true but it scares me and really makes me sad. I kind of felt like we made some headway talking today but that blew it for me.
H 42 W 37 M17 T20 years 3 daughters 11,11,14 seperated 11/26/07 EA neighbor/ moved in w/ him 2/8 Filed for D 01/08 finalized soon
