MLC BS2

[Patrick325]

Today was another rough one. I had to finally get over to the house and get some of the furniture out of the house before the bank takes it. Of course my wife came from across the street to make sure I didn't take anything she wanted. She has been asking for the last month to come over and get some of the stuff. We had an argument over the bed because she wanted to sell it. We had agreed that I could have it then she calls me last night to tell that I couldn't have it. So I brought over the moving truck with my three nephews to move. She kept going on about the fact that she wants me to give her money because she isn't working. I keep telling her that I shouldn't have to give her money since I keep the kids 1/2 of the week and I need to provide for my kids for the time that I have them. I have to pay rent and make sure that there is food in the house for the kids as well as the other bills I have. I explained to her again (like I have time and time again), that she was the one that wanted a divorce and that I shouldn't have to support her and myself since we are not together. When we were together we both made about the same amount of money. I am not rich by any means making about 40K a year. She went on saying that I have been doing a lot of things since we have been seperated(taking the kids camping, to theme parks and out to eat) and that I never did that much when we were together. It's somewhat true because I am probably over compensating because I want to make my kids happy since they are going thru so much. But we used to do alot even back then. We have gone on family trips out of state, cruises with the kids and out to eat once in a while. I had a pretty big mortgage before after we put on a pool so we couldn't go out to eat as often as I do now with a smaller rent. She told me that I never really loved her and that I just loved the thought of her being there for me....