You didn't do bad. A little passive- (c'mon, you KNOW who she was talking to) aggressive (the other stuff). Would have been better if you had just said:
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So after 15 minutes outside door, I walked into bedroom and stared at W. She asked what I wanted
"I'm going to bed. I certainly hope that's not (OM) you're talking to; not only would that be incredibly disrespectful, but pretty foolish at this point, don'tchathink?"
It sounds to me like she has probably lied to her attorney and overstated your "Joe Friday" behavior and she's trying to make a case for emotional abuse, and occupancy of the house and custody of the kids. So long as you don't do anything stupid, you'll be fine. Listening to her phone calls (at odd hours, made from your marital bed) HARDLY constitutes "abuse," and there's nothing about what you did with your son that rises to the level of bad parenting (in fact, as it's been pointed out above, you're actually being the BETTER parent in encouraging a little more independence in him at his age).
Just keep it cool; she sounds like she might be able to be counted on to do something stupid to hurt her case. You should feel VERY good about re-claiming your marital bed!!! Her little "victory dance" would seem a little premature, eh???
