My Crazy mess, these are the days of my life!

[christarn]

VS~ I think your W is just scared and confused. She may not know what emotions she is going thru. When I WA I still wanted my H, but, at my pace...if that makes sense....continue to do what you're doing. Give her space and time to grow and come to some conclusions on her own. Trust me on this one. The more my H pushed...the further he pushed me away. Keep you're eyes on the ball....remember u and I both are trying to avoid the "bunkers"!!!

A motorcycle rally sounds fun...what type of bike do you have? My dad had a HD dresser. H has a softtail. I used to ride with my dad...it was so much fun

The dogs were a huge issue between me and H. Together we had three dogs, I took them all when I walked. I wanted them inside and he wanted them outside. they are pits. But the three most gentle, loving dogs you could ever meet. They love people...I didn't raise them as Michael Vick did (I hate him for what he did to those dogs, and the reputation he continued to create for pits) anyways....H says the dogs are the biggest reason he does not want to "work on things". I am trying so hard to come to a compromise. The dogs have been inside at my new place for the past 2 years. H went and bought 2 black labs after I left....which creates even more issues. My suggestion was (H lives in our home which is on 10 acres) build a kennel and run for my dogs and slowly start introducing them...where there is a will there is a way. I said the dogs are not deal breakers. Cheating, physical abuse, things of that nature are deal breakers...not dogs. He said, nope, to me dogs are deal breakers....I just listened at that point in MC!

The weekend was a BLAST and much needed. I met a ton of new fun people. It was nice just to get out of town and relax. Not think about all of this. My friends are so good to me. They simply rock.

As for other questions, well....he showed up, which I believe is a total stepping stone. A huge baby step in the right direction. Now we really have to start to "do work" as my dear FG would say. I am not sure what is going to happen now. I hope he (H) shows up to next session...time, patience, ducks back.....it will all work out in the end. God will lead, I will follow.

Our anniversary is Thursday....any thoughts as to what I should do???? I was thinking about sending a card...nothing mushy,or over lovey...just a simple one. Feedback on this would be great....u 2 FG!!!

((((((((((to you all)))))))))
Christa