LIS and I are in similar spots rite now from what I have been reading. My wife has said some absolutely horrible things to me lately.


Calling me a loser

Saying she would label me a child molester If I fight for custody

Calling me pathetic

Accusing me of cheating with female friends of ours

She actually made the L sign on her forehead at me yesterday!

It's tough to stand and take that stuff .....why would we want or spouses back after that kinda stuff ....or let them parent our kids!

H 34
W 31
M 11yrs
D 11
D 9

6-1-08 I wanted to fix marriage
6-11-08 I found out about OM

7-16thru7-18 she tried didnt work!

8-17 home (just for kids until the end??)