I still believe in miracles

[AliSuddenly]

Wow ITH, I have been reading and it sounds all a bit difficult, you are clearly trying to stay out of his way... at least he is happy to watch a movie with you.

I cant believe how childish your H is ! I mean, fancy making a remark like that?? Wheres the respect!? And fancy saying you are his roommate.. oh, does he ML to his roommate does he !!?? Thats like a mate with extras or whatever that crass phrase is.

DB wise, I am not sure what you can do, or advise you to do. I would continue to refrain from physically touching him (like no kissing him on the cheek) unless he reaches out for you. The fact that you do keep doing this might be increasing his anxiety levels when in the same room as you... as he knows you are itching for some physical contact and may try some whenever you are around him. So I would stop doing it. Let him be comfortable around you.

Ali xxx