I don't know. I don't like the way your W said you made a poor decision and you were doing "bad parenting". You know even when my H has done some really lame things, like breaking multiple promises to D8, I never told H he was doing bad parenting or being a bad parent. I did tell him that was something he wouldn't have done before as a "truth dart", but your W is kind of verbally abusive. I know I'm sensitive to that, but still. Bugs me. ((((LIS)))))
