I think it takes them awhile to realize that what they have with ow is not what it is all cracked up to be.
My H has said several times that in the beginning you think this is wonderful and it is love but you come to the realization that it is not all that it's cracked up to be and is just an illusion.
I have read from so many here that their walkaways have said how horrible their marriages were but mine never said that at all. As a matter of fact, he has said the opposite, the marriage was always great.
Oh well, all I can do is pray.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19