Suppose there is such a place as over the rainbow?

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Mrs. H,
God does not have a personal vendetta against you. I do believe he has a plan for you and your family, but it's one that won't be revealed to you for quite some time. We question his work all of the time, especially when something bad comes upon us. There are lessons to be learned and I think some of them are as follows:

1. we must learn that we cannot rely on another person for our happiness.
2. happiness comes from within and we need to find that special happiness deeper from within.
3. we have to be independent, despite the two being merged together in marriage.
4. we need to learn that we are stronger than we think and no matter what we are dealt with, we will find a way to survive.
5. look around....we are all truly blessed with a wealth that is not measured by monetary gains...we have our health, family, friends, co-workers to support us. This is the richest part of our lives and do our spouses have this? Can they say the same?
6. we have our self-respect and a good sense of worth.
7. we will survive...stronger, wiser and more independent.

I know that this isn't what you wanted to hear today, but you are an extremely good person and I don't want you to ever think that God has foresaken you, for he hasn't.