H and I have been able to talk about many things for a long time now.

OW has always been a topic he never discusses with anybody. It's like she is something that is stuck in the closet forever. The kids never met her and he has no intention of that happening and he has told me how he hates it over there, is miserable.

The two older kids told me lastnight that he is definitely not happy over there and S18 said it is quite obvious that R is/was a no go from the beginning.

I remember a text h sent me which said: Lord, deliver me from the evil "b" I live with.

Well, I think God is really working on h and he is at the bottom swimming but cannot get up. And I know God uses illness also. Remember Charlyne's husband, Bob? Strokes and heart attacks? My h's problems are no surprise to me.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19