(((poet))) thanks so much for sharing your thoughts on passionate marriage! I am so excited that *you* are excited about reading it! the quotes you posted are great... it is really helpful to see them again. that's cool that you are a librarian! I love libraries and used to joke on the BB that I was the "librarian" of the BB ("if you're looking for XYZ info, go to ABC thread in FGH forum..."). Also because I read every single relationship book that anyone recommended to me... and that's part of why I knew passionate marriage was really special! I don't know what happened last night with your sister-in-law or the details of your situation, but there does seem to be a pattern of when the LBS really gives up, sometimes BAM! the WAS suddenly reappears on the scene. So if your heart is telling you to let go, then maybe that is what you should do. But for some reason many "hopeless" cases become hopeful...
(((kalni))) I am so happy to "see" you on my thread! I am actually brunette. People have told me yellow looks good on me. Isn't it funny, I haven't even thought about the shoes. You are my Shoe Guidance Counselor! thank you for teasing me