My h is very much aware of his medical condition. His mom was a nurse so he knows full well about heart attacks and strokes. His grandfather died of a stroke.
Yes, h and I have gone thru our bills together but still, there is not much I can do to help and make it any easier. Most of this he brought on himself. Most of that debt is ow's rent which he put on credit, and the job loss, he created that, too, by telling the new boss he will not do things her way and she fired him as a result.
My BP has been okay but yes, I am under a great deal of stress because this job is very physical. Here I am this morning and my feet really hurt badly and I have to be at work in a few hours and be there for five hours.
I cannot believe they have me working so much without a day off.
I honestly think H needs to make a decision about his lifestyle as that would eliminate at least half of the stress.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
