I have my own L. We don't have a mediator. I think he misunderstands the process, besides he wants it over asap. I think it's a little more complicated than that in Indiana, and the time frame is 60 days. He hasn't mentioned a mediator since the beginning. And I'm definitely asking that he pay my attorney fees, since this is all his idea and I don't want it anyway. Well, I pretty much do at this point, but you know what I mean.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012