Oh MWG, I am sorry, I didn't actually mean you pay the bills. I know how hard you are working and it cannot be easy. I really do sympathise. I was meaning more in the way of perhaps going over the bills and maybe seeing together if there was anyway to reduce some of them or perhaps get some financial aid. Here in the UK I know there are people you can see who can help reduce debt especially interest on credit cards, loans etc that justkeep mounting up.
I just thought that by the two of you looking at your financial difficulties together, it might be away of getting him to see how bad the situation is, but that you are willing to help him in exploring different avenues so he doesn't feel so totally helpless and get more depressed. As you have been posting about the hugs and kisses and his visits getting more frequent I thought that it might be a good time to do something different (180) and he might be receptive to it. You really have enough to cope with and I hope you manage to put your feet up at some point, fingers crossed a more suitable job will come along whilst you are doing this one.I hope the girls are helping out more after your long days.They must see how tired you get. I seem to have misunderstood at some point but I thought you have said in the past that your H still paid all the bills whilst living at OW's. I know it was a huge shock to you when you found the receipts that said he was paying rent at OW's. I guess I was concerned for your health and just trying to think of ways you could be more proactive as well as your prayers.
