Hi MWG, wow that is dangerously high BP, did you take it for him? I cannot urge you enough for him to get medical help.
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And when he told me how much debt he was in, I just about dropped my jaw. I did not say a word.
Could you not discuss ways of helping him with this? He was already in debt before he lost his job and as he is not even trying to get one,debt must be mounting up. Even credit card bills have to be paid at somepoint and as he is still paying all the bills its like a snowball going down hill.No wonder he is so stressed. He is caught up in a catch 22 situation and can see no end in sight. Numb arms are a huge red flag / warning. I hope you can find a way to be pro active in finding a solution with your H with both his debt(which I guess is half yours as well)and his BP. Our bodies only give us so many warnings before they give up. Hope you have a quiet day at work and the cleaning up isn't so hard. I guess you are just grateful you can work and relieve H of some money worries. Take care.
